For anyone who feels they are at risk of abuse, it is important to remember that there is help and support available to you. There is also some guidance available, which may help perpetrators change their behaviour.
The Isle of Man Constabulary works in Partnership with a number of local and off-Island charities who are able to provide advice and guidance. A number of these support services remain open during this challenging time, albeit with revised protocols and policies, but with the aim of ensuring people receive the support they need.
Domestic Abuse is defined in the Domestic Abuse Act 2020, as the behaviour(s) of a person towards another person if they are personally connected to each other, and the behaviour is abusive.
Categories of Domestic Abuse include, but are not limited to:
On 4th January 2023, The Domestic Abuse Act 2020 was introduced to the Isle of Man and gives victims of domestic abuse and police, more powers to deal with such offences. Two new offences now available to police are that of ‘domestic abuse’ and ‘coercive and controlling behaviour’. Also available to police and the Courts are the use of a Domestic Abuse Protection Notice (DAPN) and a Domestic Abuse Protection Order (DAPO) and their aim is to provide a victim with immediate protection following an incident of domestic abuse.
The DAPN is served by the police against a person who is aged over 14 years, who is personally connected to the victim, who is aged 16 years or over. The police would reasonably believe that he or she has been abusive or threatened abuse against you and that you need to be protected, in order to serve one. The law allows the police to serve a DAPN on the person even if you don’t agree with it.
The DAPO is an order applied for by the police to the Court. If the order is granted it will last for the time granted. Restrictions can be made such as;
The Court will hear the application within 14 days of the person being served the DAPN by the police. The DAPO can be made in his/her absence. The law allows the police to serve a DAPO on the person even if you don’t agree with it.
If you believe you are being abused, or worried you may commit Domestic Abuse, please use the following services which may help you.
If you suspect that someone is suffering Domestic Abuse, whether be a family member, friend, neighbour or someone else in your community, we encourage you to report it to the Police.
If you are in immediate danger, call 999 and ask for the Police - the Police will continue to respond to emergency calls. You will be asked if you have any symptoms of Covid-19 prior to Police attendance. This is to preserve the safety of the Officers and the wider community.
If you are in danger and unable to talk on the phone, dial 999 and keep your phone hidden. The Emergency Services Joint Control Room will pick up and record your call and help with be provided. Police will get to you, even if you can’t keep the line open. Police are able to respond to “dropped” 999 calls.
If you are not in an urgent situation, but would like some advice and/or support in relation to Domestic Abuse, current or historic, then you can contact the non-urgent Police phone line on (01624) 631212 or the Domestic Abuse Officer directly on (01624) 631495.
Is a local charity which provides advice, help and support in relation to all crime. The Staff are friendly and knowledgeable and one member has attained the nationally recognised status of Independent Domestic Abuse Advisor.
All Staff are trained to carry out Domestic Abuse Stalking and Harassment (DASH) Risk Assessment and are in regular contact with the Police Domestic Abuse Officer.
Victim Support can be contacted by telephone on (01624) 679950 or emailed on enquiries@victimsupport.im
There are a number of National agencies listed below who you can contact for advice and support. Please be aware that some of the advice, specifically in relation to calling Police and Silent Support is not applicable to the Isle of Man and you should refer to the local guidance above for this information.
The National Domestic Abuse Helpline website provides guidance and support for potential victims, as well as those who are worried about friends and loved ones. They can also be called, for free and in confidence, 24 hours a day on 0808 2000 247.
The website also has a form through which victims can book a safe time for a call from the team.
Women’s Aid has provided additional advice specifically designed for the current coronavirus outbreak, including a live chat service. It is well documented that Women’s Aid volunteers have been given the facility to work from home to prevent too much disruption to the service they offer to victims and survivors of abuse.
Locally the Women’s Refuge have a response plan to COVID-19 and will be potentially be available to accommodate persons who have fled abuse in the short-term – capacity permitting. They will take referrals from Police and other agencies such as the Department of Health and Social Care, Probation and the like, but at this time, will unfortunately be unable to accommodate direct self-referrals.
The Men’s Advice Line is a confidential helpline for male victims of domestic abuse and those supporting them. It can be contacted on 0808 8010 327 and emailed on info@mensadviceline.org.uk. They also offer a Webchat service at specific times on specific days. The opening hours are limited to weekdays however, and this should be borne in mind.
If you are a member of the LGBT+ community, Galop runs a specialist helpline on 0800 999 5428 or email help@galop.org.uk. Online referrals can also be made, however, the opening hours are limited to weekdays and again, this should be borne in mind.
Chayn provides online help and resources in a number of languages, ranging from identifying manipulative situations and how friends can support those being abused. Their “get help” tab offers some helpful and thought provoking self-help options and guidance.
If you are worried about hurting the ones you love whilst staying at home, call the Respect Phoneline for support and help to manage your behaviour, 0808 8024040. This website follows a similar format to the Men’s Advice Line and can be emailed at info@respectphoneline.org.uk. It offers information about spotting the signs of offending and minimising the risk you pose to others.
If you are concerned about how COVID-19 may affect your finances and leave you vulnerable to economic abuse, please see the guidance on budgeting, available in the form of a free booklet and provided by the Isle of Man Government Debt Counselling Service. This can be found online at www.gov.im/media/1359928/complete-debt-booklet.pdf
The Debt Counselling Service, run by the IOM Government’s Office of Fair Trading will remain open and provide a service during this lockdown period. You can contact the Debt Counselling Service by emailing debt@gov.im, by calling (01624) 686500 or through their website www.gov.im/oft/money
During the Covid-19 lockdown, families are expected to be spending longer in each other’s’ company, this can lead to tensions within the home and no way out for people who need a break.
Is there a room where you can quickly and easily exit the property from?
Do you have an outdoor space you can take refuge in?
Do you have any rooms which lock from the inside?
